• Why – the hell – am I connected? •
Nowadays, it’s rare – almost impossible – to find someone who has never be in contact with an online social network. Some people are member of one network and don’t spend a lot of time connected, others spend a big part of their life on one of more networks, switching from one virtual identity to another. Some people first create an account “just to see what is was about”, other would pinpoint the advantage these kind of network bring them, some other will use them for professional reason, and other will maybe admit they just wanted to do like everybody.
… But in the end why do we (almost) all feel the need of being a part of these parallel lives, these virtual worlds?
The first social networks were first of all means to be connected to other people, to be able to interact with them. Users use it nowadays to share information about themselve, and to gather private (transformed as public) information about the other.
The first aim of the social network Facebook for instance was to help people to find old, almost forgotten friends… but who uses it today mainly to find other people? Online, a lot of users seem to forget the concept of intimacy… Do they (do we) still feel a need of intimacy, respect of private life?
It has been calculated that Facebook users are connected on average during 20 min a day. We spend 2h20 a week to look at pictures, posts, comment, groups, status of people we often barely know! What for if not just to discover and collect information about people…?
Are social network today something else than a way to meet a need of exhibitionism and/or voyeurism?
“Internet : new heaven of voyeurism”



